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DRAFT Obligation for Progress in Conversation, The

White person says some bullshit. Someone calls them out. White person goes okay, but you weren’t super-polite in your call-out, so don’t we both have something to learn?

No. These are not equivalent things. It is a distraction. Not every conversation is balanced and fair, sometimes, one person is ignorant or an asshole, and the other isn’t.

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